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The Anatomy of Personal Boundaries

Never feel entitled to their space and thoughts. Many of us do this. We feel self-entitled to believe that we deserve a certain reaction or response from other people who handle their life and situations differently than we do. Expecting others to conform to what we think should happen is self-entitlement. It isn’t fair to the other person.

Personal boundaries are extremely crucial to have a well-balanced life. Do the self-work! Understand what you need in order to feel safe, happy, appreciated and loved. Know that others are doing the same for their life. At some point, boundaries will cross paths. They may not be the most comfortable, but they are fair

5 Incredibly Uncomfortable Things That Will Happen In Solitude

Solitude can be used to strengthen your mind, heart, and soul. It is meant to help you learn and heal simultaneously. It is not meant for you to suffer although you’ll experience growing pains while in it. It is a safe place of peace that welcomes you when you’re wounded. It is also a safe place for you to understand, accept, and improve your decision making; to reflect and regroup.

5 Reminders That Your Pain Is the Path To Growth

Each experience you grow through requires a different you. The reason why you’ve survived more than you can imagine is that something prepared you to have the strength to do so. Gaining clarity hurts sometimes. So when you’re feeling inadequate, lost or not yourself, love yourself through it anyway and repeat these 5 reminders.

10 Commandments for the #Unbothered

Everyone has an assigned amount of time on this earth. Most of us take advantage of this limited resource day to day. I like to look at our assigned amount of time as a budget. Let’s call this our “Fuck Budget” or for my more conservative reader “Budget of Care”. Each person chooses what they will or won’t care about with every decision they make. They also choose how they will care for what they choose. I am a passionate advocate for checking the f**k budget when it comes to time these days…

3 Major Signs That Confirm You're A Toxic Person

At a really low point in my life, I didn’t realize how toxic I was. Not many people could approach me. I was a perfectionist, and avoided the truth about my flaws. Only after I’ve looked back at past experiences did I think, “Damn, I was sour as hell back then” and immediately started being very mindful about how I conversed with others and distributed my energy internally and externally.

Why You Feel Guilty When You Choose Work Over Family

I used to say that I can’t find balance a lot. I used to want everything to fall into place and fit into this imaginative storyline I’ve painted for myself in regards to what I thought my life should look like. After a lot of self work, I believe I wasn’t looking for balance at all. Or, at least I’d been using the wrong word to describe my struggle. The thing I was looking for was acceptance.

5 Lessons Corporate Taught Me About Entrepreneurship

Many people think that their job is in the way of their dreams and that they'd have more time to focus on their craft and dreams if they were a full time entrepreneur. I understand that feeling all too well, but this is not always true. What I've discovered is the silver lining for all of my aspiring full time entrepreneurs who still rock their 9 to 5.

 If you're frustrated with your current position, this blog is for you. If you are interested in understanding what you have at your exposure by working for someone else, this blog is for you. If you want to know what I've learned about business, this blog is also for you.

The Unedited Truth About Why You're Still Stuck in the Same Place

I got tired of catching up with everyone and hearing all of the things they had going on, and only having a response about my oldest or newest relationship.”, a paraphrased statement from a recent conversation I’ve had. You know what I respect the most? People who are honest with themselves, the ones who are vulnerable enough to admit they’ve fucked up. It’s the only way to improve after admission and the willpower to do so.

Networking Don'ts: 3 Networking Strategies That Need to Stop Today

It's very important to network and nurture relationships in your personal and professional life. I totally get wanting to be cool with someone or wanting to know information that others seem to have. But, ladies (and gents), there is a way to do it. There are a few things I've experienced that are not acceptable when attempting to network with me or for me (you'll understand, keep reading).

The Best Way to Date a Single Woman Who's Building Her Empire

Dating and starting a business can be hard especially when the people we court don’t get the sacrifices necessary to accomplish goals. Not all people aspire to be great. Those who don’t often have a hard time dating those that do. That’s why it’s important to know and wholeheartedly understand how to date someone, a woman in particular, as an asset and grow with her instead of becoming a liability during her journey.